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Announcing Eliyah

My brand new niece has finally entered this world! Little Eliyah saw fit to arrive on Thursday last week in the early hours of the morning.  Another quick labour for my sister this time, baby was born within three hours of waters breaking and less than one hour after contractions started. 

Kelly’s first Facebook update after the birth is as follows:

Thank you everyone – our beautiful, chubby 4.2 kilo baby girl was born Thur morning 3.10am. Birth was wonderful, under an hour and perfect. Her name is Eliyah – אליה meaning "My God is my Lord" – pronounced EL – ee – Yah. We have a perfect menorah – 7 kids, 3 girls on each side and a little prince in the middle. Amazing someone I have never met, gave me a little menorah badge yesterday!

Welcome Eliyah!  We love you already :)

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The menorah – six girls with one sweet boy in the middle.

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Kelly with her two youngest sweethearts.

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Mom and dad with their new precious bundle!

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The two men in a houseful of 7 women! :)  

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Congrats Glik family and well done mommy Kel! Love you my sister!

Nelson Mandela Day 2011

67 minutes…

 cups Hot choc for FREE! cupcake hand

During the 90th birthday celebrations of arguably one of the best presidents this world has ever seen, organisers called for an international annual event called "67 Minutes".  The idea is that every year, on Nelson Mandela’s birthday, people across the world spent 67 minutes doing something that benefits others.  Why 67?  It signifies the number of years Nelson Mandela spent working, fighting and striving for freedom and change in our beloved land: South Africa.

Mandela Day

Since Madiba turned 93 this year, Mandela Day has only been "happening" for three years.  Yet, it’s catching on across the world!  I’m fairly sure that in 5 years time, it’ll be a day that most of the online world will celebrate – or at least be aware of. 

For the last two years, we’ve been a little slow on the uptake and Mandela Day passed us by.  This year I woke up to its arrival about a week before – plenty of time to plan something.  But my ideas were uninspired or simply too difficult to execute.  Thankfully, my friend Sue came to the rescue with a lovely idea about making cupcakes for our respective church staff to say thank you for all they do.  That, plus a more realistic version of my original plan to head to the train station to hand out hot chocolate to the commuters, made our 67 (+) minutes a wonderful time of sharing. 

Had I been a bit more on the ball, I would’ve checked out the official Nelson Mandela Day website where there are tons of excellent ideas of things to do to reach out to people around you – making a little difference in their lives. 

Our Mandela Day began with some cupcake baking.  Micah was my chief helper for this one.  Later that afternoon we went to Sue’s to ice and decorate the cupcakes. 

 Micah helps make cupcakes this morning time to decorate!

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We returned home to get stuck into our hot chocolate preparation.  The idea was to set up a table outside our gate and give away hot chocolate to passersby.  It’s winter here in Cape Town, and despite our Indian Summer weather, it still gets cold in the late afternoon.  I imagined a steaming cup of hot chocolate after work would be a welcome gift for those heading to the train station for the commute home. 

We had about 70 disposable cups left over from various functions, which the girls then labelled with "67 minutes" – or variations there of.  (Kiera enjoyed writing "who’s the winner?  Nelson is!" on some of hers!)

 making our "67" cups

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The kids all pitched it and soon we had our little stand all set up and waiting for our passersby. 

set up and ready to start!

Before long people came along and the reward was all in their appreciation.

Katie points out the "free" bit to a passerby

Averil, our neighbour came along and joined in the fun for a bit.  She was on her way to deliver 40 sandwiches to the homeless people in the Wynberg area as part of her 67 minutes initiative. 

love it!

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Most people were curious about our little stand – and then surprised that it was free – and then delighted!

Hot choc for FREE! 

lots of passersby - surprised and happy!

These women often pass our gate and chat to the kids, especially the lady on the left.  They stopped and had an animated chat with the kids, ending with a beautiful deeply moving birthday song to Mandela – imini emnandi kuwe – the Xhosa "Happy Birthday" song.  Really, I wish I could sing like a black woman.  God has blessed these women with a deep richness that is thoroughly absent in my reedy white voice!

these ladies sang

We stayed outside for a good hour and a half, enjoying the experience thoroughly.  The children had a bicker or two about who was going to do what – "it’s not fair, Sam is getting to hand them out all the time! " or "I want to pour them now!"  *sigh*  But, to their credit, they figured out a rotational system on their own where everyone got to share out the roles equally.  They were totally game to shout out "hot chocolate for FREE!" and to tell passersby that it was all in celebration of Mandela’s birthday. 

after some squabbling the kids decided to rotate duties - Sam is on pouring duty here

The reactions we got were priceless.  We had people running from the opposite side of the road just to grab a cup.  Children, adults, teens … black, coloured, white … walkers, runners, motorists and even cyclists – it was a wonderful representation of our rainbow nation!  A woman stopped to take photos to send to the local paper.  And several people were amazed that it was free.  One jogging couple came back along our way after having passed us on the opposite side of the road earlier.  They were so delighted with the idea of what the kids were doing that they interrupted their run for a cuppa hot chocolate.  It was almost comical waving them off and seeing them bedecked in their jogging gear, hot and sweaty from their run, yet casually walking away, carefully sipping their hot chocolate!  It was one of those days where you set out to bless someone else, but you end up feeling more blessed yourself. 

Katie - all smiles after job done :)

We had completely overrun our 67 minutes, but we still had to complete our first task – taking our cupcakes to the St James Church office to say a big THANK YOU to our staff there who work so hard to bring the truth of the Bible to the church.  With the day drawing to a close, we chose to set aside time on Tuesday morning to do just that…

the last step for the cupcakes - delivering them to the staff at St James (the other half are off to the staff at Tokai community Church with Tegan and her mom, Sue)

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The obligatory "before" shot.  Do NOT ask me what Sam is doing in this shot.  I took this shot three times and in each photo he looks like he needs to pee in the most excruciating way.  It was his attempt to grin & wink at the camera.  Hmmm.

getting ready to deliver

After that shot, he didn’t want to feature in any more, so he hid behind me while I took this one of our favourite children’s workers.  Jenni and Melissa have known our kidlets since they were born and have taught them the bible faithfully since they were tiny tots!

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We surprised a few more staff members.  Micah jumped into Scott’s arms with all the abandon of a little guy who digs his buddy’s daddy.  Dawn’s office (photo on the right) holds the scary monster paper shredder machine.  It has a scary photo of a shredded hand – courtesy of a terrible encounter with a shredding machine.  Thanks to the photo, my kids lost their appetite entirely and so they didn’t consume their own cupcakes right away!  BUT, it was a fantastic object lesson.  You see, they moan bitterly that their friends get to watch some movies that I won’t let them see.  Mostly, I’m concerned about violence and/or attitudes that are displayed in the movies.  Equating their yucky feelings of shock at seeing the gruesome picture of the shredded hand with how they would feel if they saw movies with violence that is too heavy for their little hearts, I was able to put things into perspective a bit.  And what perspective that was! 

Micah loves Uncle Scott! Dawn in her

Mervyn and Denzil taking a coffee break…

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Flo high-fiving Katie :)

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All in all – a wonderful morning doing fun stuff to benefit others that ended up benefitting us too. 

And, of course – all to continue the legacy of a great president and man: Nelson Mandela.  Happy birthday, Madiba!

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For another activity that my friend Debbie did with her kids and some friends, head to her blog and read all about their fun litter pick up day: Hutton’s Blog

More Sonlight love

I got a card in the mail the other day.  It said that there was a parcel waiting for me at the post office.  I wasn’t expecting anything.  I doubted it would be from family overseas.  But I was excited none-the-less.  It’s very seldom that we get oversized mail and mystery mail at that!

I did suspect Sonlight when I ruled out everything else.  I couldn’t think of what it could be though and my wild imagination was hoping for currently unaffordable-but-on-my-cart-wishlist curriculum to have mysteriously arrived.  Crazy since if such a windfall happened it would arrive via Fedex :)   And crazy because my mind is way overactive.  I sushed that up quickly with a good dose of reality check and got all re-excited about what our mystery parcel could be. 

All the kids piled into the car with me and off we headed.  The exchange of post office notification card and mystery parcel was quick and … sure enough, postmarked "Sonlight"!

This special "just because" gift from Sonlight was waiting for us to open it:

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A beautiful – no, TWO (in one) beautiful books by Kathryn Otoshi called One and Zero. 

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What a lovely gift on an otherwise frustratingly unhappy day! 

Thank you, Sonlight!

A husband and dad

this journey

To my husband and daddy of my children

Since you became a dad almost 9 years ago, I’ve had the enormous privilege and responsibility of partnering you in this journey called parenting. 

In the beginning it seemed so simple.  So formulaic: do wxyz and 1234 will be your four perfect progeny.  And, in those early baby days, we felt like the deep end we’d been thrown into wasn’t too difficult to paddle around in.  Despite the waters being a bit rough and not quite as crystal clear as all the books made it out to be, we kept Kiera alive at least.  It wasn’t too long before we realised that it was far murkier than we imagined.  Our lofty ideals and self-congratulations at the smaller milestones achieved took a heavy knock as our precious firstborn began exhibiting her natural bent towards sin.  Soon we were wading in muddy sludge, succumbing to sinking sand syndrome from time to time.   How were we to navigate these waters when they are so hard?  How can we bring up our children in the fear and love of the Lord if we’re fighting the waves and storms of our own sinfulness and the sinking sands of this world?  In these moments, when I despair that we’ll ever influence our children towards a life of devotion to the gospel, I’ve been reminded again of Grace.  And I realise that so much of parenting is less about how our children turn out and more about how we are and how God is shaping us.

Which, as you know, is why I so often pray "Lord, please bring our children to love, honour and serve you, because of and in spite of us and our parenting." 

Of course, praying that I rest in that, is important too!  Which is why I say: how you survive me amazes me!  My worries, concerns, frustrations and back-seat parenting must wear you down, yet so often you remind me about God’s grace.  Oh, you struggle, as I do.  Yet you persevere.  Even when my back-seat parenting nonsense crops up, no matter how irritating, you often quietly go about loving the kids gently and being patient with my impatience and my hypocrisy. 

Partnership in this journey of parenthood is a precious gift from God.  I love that he has blessed me with you as a parent partner:  That you rough and tumble with the kids in a way that I don’t have inclination or energy for.  That you whisk them off on movie dates or ice-cream trips or early evening beach runs.  That you happily break a bunch of gender-specific stereotypes so that our kids’ memories of dad will often be of you flipping flapjacks in the kitchen or icing their birthday cakes late into the night.  That you make them pizza from scratch and enjoy movie nights.  That you read to them, even when you’re tired and it feels burdensome.  That you joke and tease and sing and play with our children.  That you enjoy finding gifts for them.  That you determine to work on the areas you struggle in as a dad.  That you are man enough to admit they exist.  That you work hard and feel deeply and even cry tears over our children.  That you cut me slack, pick up the pieces and so often play mom AND dad.  And that you provide.  You provide love, stability and freedom in working hard outside of the home so that we can keep being at home.  The Lord has indeed blessed me with you.

It’s been 9 years of a journey I could never have imagined to be what it is.  And it’s another 9 years to go before we will begin to see the fruit in our first ‘adult’ child.  But, for now, I am grateful for the pruning the Lord is doing in us.  In you.  In me.  In our children.  And I thank the Lord for you – my husband and my children’s beloved daddy.    

I love you!  Happy (actual) Father’s Day!

Love Taryn

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