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Reading: a daily habit or a forgotten pastime?

The following book review was first a short talk I did at the St James Women’s Day Away conference, 11 May 2013.

Morning ladies,

When we look around this room, we see many reading opportunities. The Bible on your lap, the phone in your hand, the notice boards, the multi-media. In fact, if we analyse society today, we’d be blind not to recognise that people read more regularly today than they did 20 years ago. Yes, today society is reading words daily in newspapers, books, text messages, Facebook posts, internet articles and news snippets – on their computers, phones, tablets, televisions and more. But, our daily reading is no longer the deep contemplative reading of yesteryear. Our day-to-day reading is of the fast-food variety. Instead of feasting on a lovingly-prepared, well-cooked meal of excellent writings, we graze at the revolving fast-food belt of titbits and snippets.

book image litIn his book Lit, Tony Reinke says that the type of reading we do today is reactionary. We read and react – we read that pithy saying on Facebook and react by reposting it on our friend’s newsfeed, only to forget it moments later. He quotes journalist Nicholas Carr who complained of how his own reading habits were being influenced by the Internet. Carr said, “Once I was a scuba diver in the sea of words. Now I zip along the surface like a guy on a Jet Ski.” (Lit, p.138)

Is that you? Is that bad? Should we be doing something about that?

Well, according to Tony Reinke, Christians should indeed be reading more deeply. While there is nothing inherently wrong with zipping across the sea of words like a jet-skier as we read in the short bursts typical of today’s technological age, the risk of losing the ability to read more deeply is great. And it is a risk, because reading is essential to the Christian faith. Without the words of the Bible, we cannot know the gospel. Without reading His Word, we cannot know how to live in the light of the gospel. Without deeply considering the heights and depths of God’s love through His words, we cannot begin to fathom it.

And while being able to read and drink from the Bible deeply is essential, being able to read all good literature is a great and worthy blessing. We jet-skier readers may have a lot of fun on the surface, but if we stay there, we will miss out on the incredible, and oftentimes life-changing, beauty deep down in the ocean of words.

But, how? If we find ourselves in the habit of surface reading, how do we change? Well, I’d like to suggest that we can change by starting with this book by Tony Reinke. Lit! A Christian Guide to Reading Books is divided into two parts. Part One focuses on the whys of reading. Part Two focuses on the hows. If you’re wanting to benefit from excellent literature, but are struggling with the hows, I suggest that you buy this book and read part 2 first! If you’re struggling with the whys, then start right at the very beginning.

book image self-forgetfulnessMaybe you already have determined to read more deeply, but are scared to start with something too heavy? Then this may be the book for you: The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness by Tim Keller

It’s a small booklet of only 44 pages that focuses on a chapter from Corinthians. It’s written in an easy conversational style. Yet, it contains some of the richest and deepest truths. Keller sets out to show us from Paul’s letter to the Corinthians what the ultimate freedom from self-obsession is. He asks a few heart-probing questions and, here, I’d like to quote:

“Friends, wouldn’t you want to be a person who does not need honour – nor is afraid of it? Someone who does not lust for recognition – nor, on the other hand, is frightened to death of it? Don’t you want to be the kind of person who, when they see themselves in a mirror or reflected in a shop window, does not admire what they see but does not cringe either? Wouldn’t you like to be the type of person who, in their imaginary life, does not sit around fantasising about hitting self-esteem home-runs, daydreaming about successes that gives them the edge over others? Or perhaps you tend to beat yourself up and to be tormented by regrets. Wouldn’t you like to be free of them? Wouldn’t you like to be the skater who wins the silver, and yet is thrilled about those three triple jumps that the gold medal winner did? To love it the way you love a sunrise? Just to love the fact that it was done? For it not to matter whether it was their success or your success? Not to care if they did it or you did it? You are as happy that they did it as if you had done it yourself – because you are just so happy to see it.

You will probably say that you do not know anybody like that. But this is the possibility for you and me … This is gospel-humility, blessed self-forgetfulness. Not thinking more of myself as in modern cultures, or less of myself as in traditional cultures. Simply thinking of myself less.”

book image compared to herI really recommend this book to discover how one can attain this “blessed self-forgetfulness”. And, while I am not reviewing this book today, I would also like to strongly recommend our own Sophie De Witt’s book Compared to Her. It deals with similar themes to Keller’s book, but looks specifically at how women tend to base their self-worth on how they measure up to other women. If you find yourself ever comparing yourself to other women, then that’s a book to buy and read.

Questioning Evangelism

book image Questioning_EvangelismFinally, I’d like to recommend this book, Questioning Evangelism by Randy Newman. The less we think of ourselves, the more we naturally think of the gospel and how it affects others. But, if you’re anything like me, starting a gospel conversation with anyone strikes fear and trembling in your heart! I’ve done a great job of botching many a gospel conversation in the past. Which is why I am always grateful for writers like Randy Newman who give us great tools to help us share the good news. And Randy Newman’s book really does an excellent job of giving us a fresh perspective on gospel conversations. The title, Questioning Evangelism, is not suggesting that we should question whether one should evangelise. Rather it’s saying that we should use questions in our evangelism.  Randy Newman explains how often simply asking questions of someone very naturally leads a conversation in the direction of Jesus. He explains how each and every context is relevant. There are even chapters that take you through typical situations Christians find themselves in – like that age-old “Christians are hypocrits” accusation or the claim that God doesn’t exist.  So often we find these situations difficult to field, but Newman’s suggested way of handling them is like a breath of fresh air.

If you ever find yourself walking away from a conversation kicking yourself for not grabbing the opportunities presented to you, this is the book to read.

So, as you contemplate your own reading today, may I encourage you to keep diving deep into great literature, including the greatest of them all: the Word of God.

A Seekers Giveaway at Se7en

I woke up to this tweet in my inbox this morning:

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What that means is  … there’s another opportunity to win a signed copy of my book happening over at Se7en’s blog!! 

If you’ve never visited the crowd over at Se7en + 1, then I highly recommend that you get on over there.  The posts are daily and encompass everything from weekly crafts, to contemplative thoughts, to fun outings, interviews, reviews and more.  Se7en is number 14 on Amatomu, which means that it’s the 14th most popular website in the whole of South Africa! There is always a giveaway or two or 10 (!) happening there with the most fun way of selecting the winner. 

This post includes a great review of the book – always awesome to see what resonates with which readers – and an interview with me.  I had tons of fun answering some great questions like:

Obviously you love writing, you wrote a whole book!!! Can you think of a childhood book that spoke to you and said, “I want to write my own book one day”?

and

Inspiration: If you had one piece of inspiration for our readers and aspiring young writers… what would it be?

So head on over to this post and enter to win (or share with your friends – the more the merrier!)

Sunday Snippet: Seekers of the Lost Boy; An Author Interview and a GiveAway

Photography and Blog Design

I’ve stayed up wa-ay too late considering I only got 4 hours sleep last night.  You see, I made the fateful error of starting to mess around with blog design while watching a mediocre series with hubby tonight.  There is still much to be tweaked and such, but since there are some obvious changes over here at the Hayes family blog, I thought I’d use the opportunity to point you to a fantastic photographer: the woman behind the photos from my current blog design…

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Now, I know a few great photographers that I would recommend. But, Susie Leblond has a special something that completely resonates with me.

I first saw her photos pop up on my Facebook newsfeed when old school friends’ family photo shoots began to appear. I loved the photos and thought to myself, “ah, now that’s my style of photography. I love it! Pity it always costs so much.”

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And that was that.

Until, that is, it popped up again on my newsfeed a little while later. And again. And again. By the time the fourth family came through, I figured it was time to check Susie out. And I am so glad I did. Because her prices are reasonable. Her eye is simply brilliant. And her post-production skills are exactly what I love – whimsical, rustic, timeless and beautiful.

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Our shoot was done on Susie’s family’s farm – backing onto Groot Constantia it is the perfect setting of long grasses, stunning vineyards and, at 4pm, a setting sun that creates the most magical sun-flares ever.

Susie is so relaxed behind the camera that she managed to capture the most beautiful, natural family shots. I love them. Plus, she managed to get this mom-who-is-usually-behind-the-camera-for-a-good-reason person to be relaxed enough to get a few great shots to use for author photos and such.

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To say that we are thrilled is an understatement!  Susie has done a fantastic job and I highly recommend her.  You can book Susie for when she opens in October again.  Susie is based in Cape Town.  Check out her other work here: www.susieleblond.com and/or like her facebook page.

 

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We did not receive any compensation for this review.  It is simply because we really really loved our experience and want to share the love Smile

You can see more of our photos on Susie’s website by clicking on this link:

Hayes family photo shoot.

Body World

In Mid-March Craig and I decided to take the kids on an educational outing… Since we’re doing anatomy for science this year, I figured that the girls would benefit from seeing Body World. Well, Kiera’s sensitivities got the better of her a few days before and she forfeited her spot in favour of her cousin, Holly.  The boys, we figured, were too young.  So off we went, with only 1 of our 4 for our family educational outing! 

We couldn’t take pictures inside the exhibit, but we were allowed to take this photo…

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We really enjoyed it – if it is possible to enjoy a 1 1/2 hours of viewing dead bodies!

Katie and Holly had a ball and enjoyed their Kauai date with Craig and I afterwards.

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Here they are showing us that even bodies with their skin ON can look pretty gross…

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Beautiful.

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Yum yum.

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Most poignant for me was the beginning and the middle.

The first exhibit is of the development of life, from the smallest zygote to the newly born baby. Looking at those little exhibits made me realise just how amazingly intricate our creation and development is. Looking at those ‘bundles of cells’ shouted “I am human!” – not at all what the pro-abortion lobbyists would want you to believe. I walked on from the exhibit being incredibly moved by God’s intricate planning in our lives, right from the very beginning.

Interestingly, though, when Craig and I came to a cross-section of a man’s head, my feeling was polar opposite. We were face-to-face, quite literally, with a man in his 50s or 60s. Every pore on his skin was scrubbed and clean. There was still stubble on his chin and a place or two where the razor didn’t quite reach. His eyes were closed, yet they look like he would, in any moment, ‘wake up’ – open his eyes and begin a conversation. Except for the fact that half of his head was on the right of the plate and the other half on the left. We were staring at the cross-section of a man’s head. His skull and brain cross-sectioned to reveal the intricate convolutions of the brain. He was dead. And his brain was nothing but a meaty mess of channels and vessels. In that moment, our mortality, our finite cellular make-up stared me in the face.

The oxymoron is startling and yet obvious. We are nothing but cells. Yet we are made in God’s image. We are all going to die one day, leaving a body of skin, bone, muscle and other mortal fragments. Yet, we are so much more than the body we leave behind. My ironic reaction did not escape me – when staring at a floating blob called a zygote, I felt deeply moved at God’s creation of humankind. When staring at a recognisable human being’s centre of reason and life, a man’s cross-sectioned head, I felt deeply aware of our nothingness – our biology of cells that function until they die. How odd – yet, how significant at the same time. For God’s interest in us was way before we were recognisably human. He came to save us long before we were even that floating blob called a zygote. We ‘enlightened’ humans hold so much more value in the human represented by the man’s head on a plate – more than the human represented by the white, floating tissue. Yet, GOD loved us BEFORE…

It makes the whole pro-choice/pro-life argument seem utterly absurd.

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