Hazy Days

June 2014

What a fun month!

We celebrated Katie’s 10th birthday.

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We were surprised to find that the Cape Argus homeschooling article we interviewed for ended up being a double-page “big story”.

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Part of me cringed because the article and photo combo made us look air-brushed and idyllic, when the truth is that while we sometimes do have awesome days that look like these, very often we have tough days too where learning is more about reigning in impatience and coping with frustration.  Anyone who has read much of this blog will know that I am very wary of projecting the “picture perfect” family.  It’s an inaccurate picture and it’s unkind to others who end up comparing their mess to our window dressing.  But, another part of me was relieved that the article was so very much in favour of homeschooling.  Too often mainstream media reports irresponsibly about home education, never bothering to find out what it actually entails.  This article did the opposite and highlighted many of the positives.  It was a wonderful PR piece for home education.

Of course, it was quite funny when I had the total opposite experience the following week.  When the newspaper came to interview us, the girls had been baking and cooking and their school work was finished.  The kids had all had a great morning of seatwork and everyone was relaxed.  I was dressed as I normally dressed, but a little more attention was paid to make up and such.  Fast-forward a week and … well … picture extreme cold and a broken fireplace.  Then you can imagine why it was the first time I’ve EVER put my fleecy dressing gown over my clothing during the day.  It really was that cold.  I also had hair in need of a wash all pulled back in a messy bun and barely any make up on.  All in all I felt frumpish, but at least I was warm.  Well, Sam inadvertently let a DA representative into the property, thinking he was the gas technician for our fireplace.  Well, the DA guy wanted to know a few political things.  We chatted in the driveway and soon, in dribs and drabs, my barefooted, raggedy-dressed children came to hang around.  Some to ask me questions about school work, some just to hang around.  And in Micah’s case, we can take “hang around” quite literally – my body is his jungle gym it seems.  Eventually, Mr DA stopped, looked around at the menagerie of messy, unbrushed heads and said, “do you homeschool?”

I could only begin to imagine what he must have thought!  We really did look our worst.  I needed only a limp cigarette hanging off my lip to complete the picture of the washed-out, neglectful housewife!  Right then I was wishing that he had rather seen the newspaper article!  This was a little “too” real life for my pride!

I did have a good giggle at myself when I said goodbye and walked back into the house.  So much for being a champion for the authentic!

At least we had Cape Explorers to look forward to that week.  We did Signal Hill again and the kids had a super time.

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Especially since they got to see the paragliders.  That was a huge hit.

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Kiera and Léa were all Matilda-ed about everything, so here they are striking a Matilda the Musical pose.

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Our church had a fun family day that we got to attend on Katie’s birthday weekend.  Games and activities and a lunch together with our St James families.

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I had another bout of inspiration along the lines of functional décor.  Of course, that meant that while I did do most of the drilling, invariably Craig had to rescue me at some point.  A man with a power tool.  Mmmm.

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Part of the décor frenzy included painting a whole bunch of things, like this bread bin.  All the décor fun is here: Dining Room Décor Fun.

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Another bit of fun I’ve been having is putting weekly inspirational quotes up on our dining room wall.  Like this one:

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I managed a long run with a friend one early Saturday morning.  We headed out while it was still dark, but towards the end of the run, this was our view.  Lovely!

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We’ve not helped out at Mamas and Munchkins in forever because there just seems to be constant clashes of the diary.  This month though, we could make it, so the girls joined me.

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By far the most helpful of the three of us (Kiera, Katie and myself) was Katie.  I ended up chatting mostly, Kiera ended up reading mostly and Katie dived into helping with the little kids.  She absolutely loves interacting with the little kids.  What a super star!

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Some of these shots are randoms from my phone that I’ve probably shared on FB or somewhere equally vacuous.  But, this next photo is that exception called: “the best vegetarian curry I’ve ever eaten”.  I’m posting it here to remind myself to have it more often!  Lentil Curry.  yum yum!  Even the kids like it – especially Kiera.

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Another week; another quote:

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Craig’s ex-colleague came for dinner one night and brought our kids some fun puzzles.

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One of the things I took to painting was this frame.  I took out the glass and painted the backing board with chalkboard paint.  It now resides next to my fridge where it keeps my shopping list going.  When it’s time to shop, I take a quick photo of the list and off I go.  MUCH easier than typing it into my phone or forgetting slips of paper at home.

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Lunch Bunch boys…

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I host a support group for homeschoolers in the Western Cape via Facebook.   It’s called Homeschool Western Cape and has grown to around 1300 members in the last 3 years.  I roped in a fellow homeschool mom to co-admin the group with me. Chirani and I have only met in real life a couple of times, but I’ve always been impressed with the way she conducts herself online – full of grace and seasoned with salt.  So she was the obvious choice.  Smile  Well, turns out that she is a super organiser of events too.  She asked if I would be willing to give a talk to the homeschooling community in the northern suburbs – about my book and the process.  No sooner had I said yes than she it all organised and really well too.

photo 1 (26)There’s something tricky about speaking in front of groups of people about oneself.  I hate the whole celebrity-culture of our society – even the little local celebs.  Building myself up as one is not what I want to do.  Authenticity, you see. But not so much of the authenticity in a bathrobe!  Winking smile So, I arrived, sans dressing gown and with make-up.  But also with a list of some of my more embarrassing moments.  It was a fun experience and I loved meeting the women and hearing some of their incredible stories.  I really love that – love hearing the way God works in others’ lives, seeing their journeys play out in the retelling, feeling their joy in the process and the maturing.  I seldom walk away from these events without feeling enriched.  So, thank you, Chirani!   And double bonus – I got to sell a few of my books AND some of the Missionary Stories.  Triple bonus?  My girls came with and handled all the sales like champs.  photo (47)

The next weekend was Father’s Day and we had some fun organising that.

The kids preparing for Daddy’s Day – making their cards…

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Sam decided that he wanted to bake the day before Father’s Day.  It worked out quite well, since his choice of biscuit just so happens to be his daddy’s favourite.

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I showed him and off he went…

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Pinwheel biscuits!

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We turned some of them into owl faces…

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The best part for me?  Watching this dude clean up after himself!

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Father’s Day arrived – Craig scored some home-made snoods.  So far he lives in the dark grey one.

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And … inside the Father’s Day Book: IMG_5632

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We spent Father’s Day enjoying lunch with Craig’s family.  That was fun and yum!

The Monday afterwards was a public holiday.  It was also rainy and cold.  So I kept on with the sewing and made Craig and I some hand/wrist warmers. Since they are the same colour, I tagged mine.

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Another week.  Another wall quote:

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With the sewing machine out, Ms Katie dived straight in to try a few things. I need to allow her more opportunities to learn sewing.

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One of my favourite decisions this month was moving our wall map to our table top.  I covered the map and table with clear plastic – 2m from a roll of pvc at the fabric store.  It protects the maps, cleans the spills and works a charm.

Every night that we’ve eaten at the table, the conversation has picked up around the map at some point or another.

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We’ve talked about all sorts of things, like how the Vatican is in its own city; who the Sultan of Brunei is and what countries are part of the European Union.  It’s been awesome.

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This photo for posterity – Sam loves maths and gets it really quickly, so he has whizzed through his Maths curriculum in half a year.  Here he is, posing with great delight with his last test of his Math U See Beta curriculum completed with 100%.  Delight!

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Another one of those mama-heart photos: the girls have been bonding a whole lot better over the past few weeks.  One of their new rituals is Kiera reading aloud to Katie.  Moments like these warm my heart like nothing else.

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Another Cape Explorers outing of fun at Intaka Island.  We had a great time being exposed to all the amazing ways one can create eco-friendly ways of living life.

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Our group went on the pontoon first.  What fun!  And double bonus is that Craig works at Century City which overlooks Intaka Island.  So he came out onto the balcony for the kids to wave to him.  A double delight for our kids.  And, for me too – that handsome man leaning on the balcony railing like a Men’s Health cover is my man!

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That stuff in that bottle?  Nope.  Not coke.  Try: worm pee!  Great for your plants, not so much for your glass.

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This amazing building has been built out of steel, polystyrene and concrete.  It will not burn down and insulates beautifully at a fraction of the price of bricks.

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Sam creating energy.

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Filling out their birding sheet.

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We had to leave the outing at Intaka early because Katie had her first drama Eisteddfod.  It’s been quite something learning how to handle her preparation for the Eistedfodd.  She is so very different from her sister who works really hard at the things she is passionate about and spends every minute consumed by it. Katie is happy to go to practices and work with the teacher, but expecting practicing at home is crossing the line.  It’s extremely frustrating and drives me batty.  Thankfully the Lord is good and intervened this time around.  I felt quite moved about it at the time and retrospectively that I wrote a separate piece about it that I will probably share elsewhere.  But, in summary, I chose to back off and allow her the space to do things the way she does things. Well, she persevered through the practices even though she was not feeling like she had made a good choice – it was hard.  Thankfully, even though it was at the last minute, the Lord gently reminded me not only to give her space but to give her unconditional love.  Well, she just blossomed when I took her aside to tell her how proud I was of how she had decided to do it and had seen it through, how much I loved her and that no matter what happened on stage, I was already so very proud of her.

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(pictured above is Katie with Lea who played Lucy Pevensie from The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe – Lea did brilliantly and scored a Gold Diploma)

She did a superb job!  It was rushed and not entirely fluid with some gestures that were too big for the moment, but mostly she shone like a radiant beam of joy on that stage.  She played Violet Bureaugarde from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and she was quite convincingly that snotty, bratty, gum-chewing popular girl who deserves taking down a peg or two!  She got Honours Plus which is between 85-89% – the second highest result you can get.

Here’s a link to her performance: http://youtu.be/lB0S6i2eIcI

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(in the pic above, Kiera is featured with another student from her drama studio)

Kiera did her piece that evening.  She also did well.  She was disappointed because she felt she hadn’t done her piece as well as she could have.  In fact, she was down on herself for getting a Gold Diploma (the highest award) because she felt that she didn’t deserve it.  Last year, she reasoned, her performance was better, and since she got the Gold Diploma for that, then this year’s performance should have been a High Honours.  Funny girl.  She only accepted it as okay when I explained that the Gold is anything from 90-100%, but it’s still a Diploma, whether she got 90 or 95 or 100%.  She handled it well though and I was proud of her for her approach to her work and for the way she has handled it since. She played Matilda from Matilda the Musical when Matilda gives a speech to the librarian about a story she has read.

Here’s a link to her performance: http://youtu.be/Gr5QofA_J_A

The weekend that followed, we took the kids to be blood-typed!  We’ve been studying blood for our Science lessons and the kids now know all about blood types.  Naturally, the next step was to learn what theirs was.  Well, thanks to Shingi, one of our bible study members who also happens to work at the WP Blood Bank, we found out about the awareness drive happening in the month of June – a drive that including free blood-typing stations set up all over Cape Town.  So off we went.

Nervous kids:

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Kiera braved going first.

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It’s fascinating watching how the typing is done.  Basically, drops of blood are mixed with three different solutions.  Solution A is the A antigen. B is the B antigen and C is the Rhesus factor antigen.  If you’re A, you blood will separate and do weird things as it mixes with the A solution.  Same for B.  If you’re AB both solutions will react.  If you’re O neither will react.  And if you have the rhesus factor, solution C will cause your blood to go all dotty like the image below.

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It turns out that all the kids and I are O+ while Craig is O-.  We joke that he is the only negative Ou amongst us!IMG_5718

All the Os!

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Post-typing treats!  Poor Micah admitted in the car on the way home that he had wanted to cry but that he had held it in.  Poor thing!

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The Winter Solstice, as always, brings joy for me because it means that the days are now starting to get longer and the nights shorter. But the double bonus this year is that the next day we had a beautiful warm and sunny winter’s day.  We went to the beach and had a blast!

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Kiera and Lea had their drama eisteddfod the next day.  They had put together a special musical duologue some months back.  The song?  “Naughty” from Matilda the Musical.  Kiera has been on a big Matilda fix since she discovered it earlier this year.  She infected her best friend with the Matilda craze by teaching her the song and the movements she had choreographed – leaning heavily on the movements from the original West End musical.  They showed their drama teacher and then next thing we knew, they had been given special permission to present it at the Cape Town Eisteddfod.  Because there is no musical theatre option, they allowed the girls to enter under the dramatic duologue section.  Katie, the sweet thing, was so excited for them that she baked a cake and marked it “K L” and “Matilda”.

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They did beautifully.  I am completely the proud mother – the performance is delightful, albeit not 100% perfect with voices that still need a lot of training, but more importantly, I’m so proud of their initiative, dedication and hard work.  They put hours of practice into it and organised their costumes (picture the irony – the homeschooling mom having to rush out and buy a school uniform as a stage costume!) and even their own props.

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Their efforts paid off because they scored a Gold Diploma and were asked back for the finals!  That meant some mad scrambling for us as Lea was supposed to get her braces that day and Kiera was supposed to be on the road to Oudtshoorn for her gymnastics competition on the morning of the finals.  But, we managed to organise things so that the girls could enjoy the experience of doing their finals. They did not win the finals – another very well-deserving team won it for a routine about the ugly step-sisters.  The step-sister act had done a fantastic job and deserved the win.  And we were all kind of glad that our girls didn’t win, because it felt a little unfair – it wouldn’t seem right allowing a musical duologue to win in a category that was not made for their genre.  The adjudicator was amazing, though.  She came to find the girls after the finals and told them that they were “absolutely outstanding” and would go far if they continued doing what they are doing.

Their performance is here: http://youtu.be/zgYl904Xt_U

And here they are with some of the other students from their drama studio:

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We’ve been rereading some of the books from Sonlight‘s core B and C since the boys were too young to remember them when I read them to the girls.  It’s been such an enriching experience.  The girls are constantly full of exclamations: “Oh! I remember this one!  Oh! I loved this story!” And the boys keep begging for extra chapters.  Sam takes every opportunity to carry the Missionary Stories with the Millers book to whoever alights our doorstep to tell them how much he loves the book.  It’s his favourite book so far and we’re only halfway through.  Beautiful!

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Despite the warm sun from time to time, winter has definitely not lost its impact.  It really is cold and so this is not an unusual sight in our home these winter months: Katie listens to her music while she does Maths, cleverly secreting her earbud earphones into her earmuffs.  At least she gets the work done!

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We had a thoroughly enjoyable last Lunch Bunch of the term – celebrating with our annual International Day.  This time it was Asian Day.  More on that in this post.

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Another week and another quote.  This quote and the one before (If a thing is worth doing, it’s worth doing badly) formed the backbone of the talk I gave earlier in June.  They are both inspirational sayings that have helped guide how I think and approach things.  Or should I say – how I would like, consistently, to think and approach things.  Sadly, I need them repeated in my heart and mind constantly.  Which is probably why they still remain so focal for me – I’m still learning!

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After Kiera and Lea’s final experience, she came home for a quick change and hair-do.  It was almost 8pm by the time she and Craig left; Kiera with her french-plaited helmet of hairspray.  It was quite a scene – the dark, stormy night.  The bucketing rain.  And the two of my three remaining children howling like their sister and Dad had just driven off to their deaths.  Katie was missing Kiera and Micah was missing his dad.  What a night!  Of course, I didn’t get to sleep until they arrived safely at midnight.  Ms. Katie ended up in my bed, and Micah and Sam ended up sharing a bed, all in the spirit of feeling loved, warm and comforted.  Katie went to sleep staring at her favourite picture of Craig and I with Kiera and her shortly after she was born.  She hates it when Kiera is not with her.

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Meanwhile, the next day, Kiera had to get up bright and early for her competition.  She did well.  Not her best overall, but well none the less.  She had a big upset when she scored a full point less than what her couch and she expected.  Her performance of the floor routine, according to her coach, had been a high 8 or low 9 in total.  Kiera had felt confident about it too.  So she was super shocked when she got a 8.05  when she was expecting a 9.0.  Her coach was upset.  Another team’s coach was upset. There was discussion with the judges who waved off the dramatic discrepancy with a “she lost points for being messy”.  That made the coach mad, because while she accepted the technical mistakes Kiera made, she was adamant that Kiera was not messy.  Craig was watching from the sidelines, feverishly messaging me back in Cape Town.  I felt so much for my poor girl, who just barely held the tears in.  Craig took a photo of her from the sidelines, trying to hold it all together – after her shock and before she did the vault, her worst apparatus.  My prayer with her before she left and that morning before she started, when I spoke to her on Craig’s phone, was “whatever happens, be sure that you’re bringing glory to God.”  Well, if this wasn’t an opportunity to exercise that, I don’t know what was!  Especially when she saw other girls do their routines and score significantly higher than her, despite all their wobbles, falls and other mistakes.  And knowing that it cost her a chance to be on the podium.

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But, she did manage to make the podium for some of her individual results.  She scored a second on Beam and a third on vault!  And came home with a cool t-shirt that says “professional gymnast: do not try this at home”.

 

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Being in Oudtshoorn, they spent the afternoon at the Cango Wildlife Ranch and enjoyed the big cats and all the other animals…

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They chose to skip their Saturday plans and head home early on Saturday morning, so by the time I got home from the grocery store at lunch time, they were already home!

June ended shortly after that – we enjoyed a dinner out with family and got to pop into Gran-gran who is not doing too well.  It was quite something seeing her so confused and weak.  She did not recognise us and was not able to speak well.  We stayed for a bit, prayed for her and chatted a little bit, introducing her to the kids again.  She told me, “what a lovely husband you chose!”  I had to agree!

With June over, we head into a few weeks of school holidays which hopefully means that I will find some time to tackle book 2 of the Seekers series.  Hopefully!

 

 

 

 

Asian Day at Lunch Bunch

Each year, our co-op has an International Day.  We focus on a country, area or custom and all our food and activities revolve around the theme of the day.  This year was Asian Day.  Well, China Day, but since the costumes and food extended beyond China, I’m going with Asian Smile

First: the kids in their varying outfits.  My boys were not too keen on dressing up, so their dressing gowns and a drawn-on moustache was the order of the day.  But Ms Katie was in her element.  She raided the dress up box and devised her own outfit, make up and hairdo.  The result?  See below:

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When everyone was together, the array of Asian attire was varied and very amusing!

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Enough with the photos!

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Since it was the Year of the Horse on the Chinese calendar, Caren had the kids making a little horse each out of cork.

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After all the industry, here was the final product:

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Of course, no Asian day is complete without certain staples, like spring rolls.  These beauties are made by my Filipino aunt Lerma.  She makes to order and they’re fab!

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For dessert – bow-ties.

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Kate explained that all the different courses are to be eaten separately and not altogether like we like to do in the West.  So after spring rolls, the kids had their fried rice and then their ginger chicken chop suey – superbly made by Sue.

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Of course, some kids aren’t nearly as tempted by the food as they are by the fun of friendship:

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We found ourselves chatting so much that we ran out of time to do the Chinese writing activity Kate planned.  But, she left the sheets with us and Sam has been having a blast copying the alphabet.

Speaking of forgetting; I forgot to make the green tea!

But we did get a short video in of Gladys Aylward who went to China as a missionary in the early 1900s.

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And the kids did perform a hilarious show for us about a cruel and abusive Asian empress who is overthrown by an Asian princess.  That video will be one for our year-end party.

Here ends another fun and memorable International Day!

Previous years:

Dining Room Décor Fun

I’ve been wanting to do some fun things with our dining room in terms of décor.  When we did all the renovations, there were still areas that I wanted to decorate in some way or another.  We’ve added a few wall photos / pictures in the lounge and so on, but nothing too exciting. Mostly, I’ve wanted to do something with our dining room and the big blank wall in the lounge.  Well, the lounge wall is still blank. But at least now I have some ideas ready for the Craig-approval list.  Smile

But, finally, I’ve done some dining room décor – it’s still far from finished and I’m not entirely convinced about everything I’ve done, but here’s the progress so far.

I decided to start chalking weekly quotes on our red chalkboard wall.  We do Bible verses regularly anyway, so I thought it would be good to introduce some excellent quotes from theologians, historians, philosophers, writers etc that are worth remembering.  This week we have Jim Elliot’s quote, “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”  Last week we had CS Lewis’s, “True humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.”

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That wall now sports a map, quote and some blank frames in which I’ve currently done three quick doodles.  I have thoughts to put special mementos in each frame.  Still thinking through that one.  I would like to put a distressed shelving unit up where the map currently is – still thinking through that one too.  We may keep the wall map on our dining table under a plastic tablecloth for future – I love maps and I love how many discussions happen around them. 

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On the adjacent wall, I decided to pop an old book in a frame.  That wall is often half covered with a door, so I put the frame up only where the wall is always visible.  The old book is a book of poetry that belonged, I think, to my dad at some point.  It’s falling apart, but it’s filled with beautiful Christian poetry.  If I am really with it, I will take it out every now and again and change the page Smile

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One of my frustrations with the dining room space is balancing practicality with style.  I want it to be a beautiful space, but it also has to work for homeschooling.  So, eventually, this was born: clipboards that can be functional if necessary, but also decorative.  And a pinboard that’s beautiful, but practical too. 

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The hearts I’ve had for a little while – thank you Mr Price.  The clipboards were lying around the house.  I just painted them with a mixture of blackboard paint and grey cashmere.  The result is grey blackboard paint!  Voila! Love it.  I found this beautiful floral paper – a perfect backdrop for the hearts. 

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The pinboard is just that soft board one can get at a local hardware store.  Mine is 1m x 1.2m and R140 ($14).  The fabric is a beautiful soft grey fabric with a light floral pattern that I got for R55/m ($5.50/m).  Staplegun, plus fabric, plus soft board = pinboard!  Very easy.

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The map I found online and printed out at our local copy shop for R30.  I will probably get another one made that’s laminated too so that we can use it actively.

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While I had all the paint and stuff out, I painted a few other things with chalkboard paint – like this breadbin (pictured after a light sand).

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It was a wedding present and served us well as a bread bin, a storage unit and well, a storage unit.  Now we need a bread bin again, but it didn’t suit our kitchen décor.  So, here we go – a new bread bin.  Not so sure I like the “bread” writing – I’ve recently changed it and may change it again.  Beauty of chalkboard!

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That’s it so far – until the next burst of inspiration (and funds)!

May 2014

May – the month where summer and winter collide leaving us all dizzy and disorientated.  And peeling off winter layers under sunny skies, only to layer them all on again days later.  But – when the sun shines, it’s glorious!

And shine it did for the Cape Explorers outings we had this month.  Firstly – to Kleinplaas Dam on Red Hill.  A little known gem. Well, little known to us that is.  So much so, I got hopelessly lost and we ended up being 20 minutes late!

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Still, we got there and the kids had a blast:

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Even with all the public holidays in April and May, we managed to power on through most of them and kept up with school.  It also afforded an opportunity for cousin Holly to join us one day to experience “homeschool”! 

We did a yeast experiment that day – trying to determine the best conditions in which yeast grows.  Fun!

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Best part?  When Katie tried to take the balloon off her jar and the bubbling yeast exploded all over her!

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May was the month that Micah finally realised that he actually CAN read!  He’s been learning via a programme called Reading Eggs.  He just has not had the confidence as yet and only when I sat down with him and encouraged him to try read the stories at the end of each lesson did he suddenly realise – he could read!

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Can you see the delight?  I love it!

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We celebrated some family time with the rest of the Hayes clan – and Ali’s 40th!

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We took the kids out for Mexican food one night in May.  Sam is fast becoming our “hot stuff” boy – game to try just about any hot stuff for the fun of it.  Here he goes with a chilli:

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Oooh! Hot!

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Sam’s also taken to wanting to cook and bake on his own.  So here’s his first batch of brownies.  Too sweet!

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Micah coming for a photo op!

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On the way to drop kids off at club on Friday night, this was what greeted me in the clouds – beautiful!

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Movie night at club!

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One howling boy who found himself stuck up a tree!

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A surprise letter and picture from dear friends in Kenya.  Wow how the kids have grown!

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Katie loves that her youngest brother is game to play tea party with her.  Especially during school work breaks. 

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On Tuesday mornings, the boys head down the road to Debbie’s where she does fun and educational things with her boys and mine.  It affords me extra time with the girls.  We’ve also started reading through this book as some extra special girly time.  Speak Love is written to young girls about their words and attitudes.  It deals with the heart and has been quite helpful for conversations about how we treat each other.  She nails the Mean Girl.  I’m really enjoying reading together with my girls a book especially aimed at their hearts.  Of course, indulging in Craig’s Triple Chocolate Muffins at the same time is a super cool bonus!

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We did manage a few playdates in May – this photo was from one with the D family.  I love it because it’s a great memory of the many fun times these kids have together. I also love how they love playing together, despite there being a 6 year age gap from the youngest to the oldest. 

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My Sonlight catalogue finally arrived in the mail.  Yay!  We will most likely start on a Sonlight core in the new year, after having done South African history for the past two years.

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May was our month to vote for the next 5 years of government.  It’s been a while since the kids have seen the process.  We spent a bit of time this month learning about the election process and our history.  The kids spent most of the month speaking about elections, government, leaders, voting and parties.  Craig and I were peppered with questions about who we were voting for and why.  Nothing like real life to educate kids!

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Our church’s annual Food Fair had a rebranding!  We’re now the “Soul Food Market” – thanks to a late night whatsapp brainstorm from our home group.  Go Hayes group! Smile  I got a chance to sell my book. Here’s Sam manning the table.

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We headed up to Hermanus that night, after the market, to celebrate Mother’s Day with my mom.  Here are some kiddies at the Spookfontein restaurant.

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Mommies!

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The #Bringbackourgirls campaign has been a big topic of conversation and prayer in our house.  One home-educated young girl put together an awareness video and asked families to contribute photos – here’s Katie’s.  IMG_5366

Here’s the video: http://youtu.be/mmV9aQqf3j0

We had book club at the Warton’s this month.  Katie wanted to come with so that she could spend some time with the Warton girls.  All the Warton girls have babysat our children at some point in their lives.  And the kids love them!  So, while I was enjoying delicious tea snacks, great books and company in the lounge, Katie joined Liesl in the kitchen.  I love this photo below for so many reasons – it’s a kitchen that buzzes with joy, fellowship and happiness.  People are the heartbeat here.  It’s filled with wonderful people – people I love.  And the fact that I get to share these special people with my own daughter – and she gets it; she loves them as much as I do, well, it’s just awesome.  She had a blast helping peel and cut potatoes for their 18 people dinner that night!    

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Kiera’s on a Matilda the Musical craze at the moment.  She watched an X Factor on Youtube some months back and loved a piece done by a young girl.  A little googling and she discovered the piece was an item from the Matilda musical on West End.  Well, we’ve not heard the end of it since.  She now knows all the songs by heart, choreographed a modified version of the item “Naughty” and taught it to her best friend.  Then they showed it to their drama teacher.  Well, they now have TWO items for their drama eistedfodd this year.  One being the monologue they each do on their own and the second being their musical item – “Naughty” from Matilda the Musical.  Here the girls are all dressed up for their “dress rehearsal”.  Too cute!

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We’ve been hard at school work this month.  Even if it means we don’t keep to one particular dress code!

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When I took this photo, Kiera said “hey, look, ma! Katie and I are the ‘koeksusters’!”  Katie was making supper (mash potatoes with crumbed chicken fillets and veg) and Kiera was baking banana bread. 

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If memory serves me correctly, this was the same day that we had a reporter from the Cape Argus come to interview us about home education.  They did a great article that highlights some of the concerns about registration of home educated children.  They also gave home education a super promo!  More on that in next month’s update.  But here are the photos off their Facebook page:

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I’ve been wanting to see Blood Brothers for ages now.  It’s a West End musical that was adapted for a South African context by David Kramer.  The story takes place in the 1960s in District Six, then moving onto the Cape Flats – apartheid the backdrop of a story of love and loss.  It was at the Fugard theatre.  We’ve never been there.  I booked the front seats, because our experience has been so positive – front seats are usually cheap seats, but they are also great seats.  But these ones were CLOSE.  We sat down next to a couple who got chatting to me straight away.  It was a wonderful conversation that turned spine-tingling in mere moments.  Turned out that the lady I was talking to had lived in Harfield Village.  Her mother was the principal of the Methodist school in Second Avenue.  She had managed to avoid forced removals, first by being exempt for the year the school was coming to a close.  Then by totally ignoring the government’s notices to move!  What a feisty lady!  She is still living in Harfield Village at the age of 95.  I was marvelling at the similarities in her story to my character – a man, principal of a school, living in Harfield Village, expected to leave due to the Group Areas Act.  And then she told me that her mother’s name is Mrs Hendricks.  Hendricks – just like Mr Hendricks in my story.  The one, totally fictitious.  The other, the real deal.  Wow.  The show itself was brilliant, but the entire evening was made all the more amazing by the conversations I got to enjoy with Dorothy and her husband during interval and before.   IMG_5431

We’ve been doing Table Talk (Good Book Company) for our devotional times in the morning.  There’s a free timeline that’s offered if one writes in.  Well, I wasn’t expecting one per child or this awesome letter!  Really good stuff!

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The sun shines and then the clouds roll in.  But, we can still enjoy an afternoon walk – love, love, LOVE the Alphen trail.

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Katie’s really improved in her attitude towards school work.  She’s so much more responsible and it’s awesome!  Here she’s using the window as a light table – tracing the Western Cape.

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We’ve been studying blood in our Science times together.  We did a fun hands on “model” of blood with honey (plasma), red powdered food colouring (red blood cells), white jelly beans (white blood cells) and candied sprinkles (platelets).  They kids had an absolute blast!

Loads of laughs and fake grossed-outedness!

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It was one of our favourite experiments this year!

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Fun!

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We also experimented with making corn bread – a la Trekboers – well, it was all good in theory but no one wanted to eat this brick!

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Lunch Bunch continues as always – love, love, LOVE this group.  Here Kiera is listening to Caren share tips for drawing.

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These two!  Love them!

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This photo kills me – laughing!  I asked Micah what he was doing and he said, “Mama, I was sliding!  I couldn’t help it!”

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Reading aloud from Secret Seven – love it!

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And learning how to draw some more…

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More Cape Explorers!  Woohoo!  Again to Simonstown for a fun outing of adventure scavenger hunt.

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After our outing, we joined the R family for a visit to the Toy Museum… 

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The favourite was definitely the running train set in the middle of the store.

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I had fun taking photos – trying to make it look real!

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Ok – enough with the overkill of train photos.  Here’s some of the historical figurines.  I have no idea who would collect these, but they’re pretty awesome. Imagine learning history by playing with these. 

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Kiera had her first gymnastics competition for the year in May.  Two weeks before the contest, she still couldn’t do a hip circle on the bar.  She was pretty convinced that she should not compete.  She really struggled and was seriously considering quitting this year.  But, she agreed to keep her commitment to the end of the year.  Lots of chats about persevering and working to one’s personal potential.  She took it all on board.  Worked hard and finally got the hip circle. 

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She had an absolute ball at the competition.  Here she is with her teammates waiting for the prize-giving.

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Best part?  She had absolutely no idea that she had won!  Her joy was too precious.  Her first time on the podium for an overall win.  But for me it was double joy, because she had put so much hard work into it. 

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Love her joy!

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Her friend, Lea, had come to watch along with Katie – love it.

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May ended with Katie’s 10th birthday party – fun times!

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And so ends – May 2014!

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